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Showing posts with label Life style. Show all posts

Monday, 8 December 2014

?Question Of The Day:- How Do You Get Rid Of A Girl You No Longer Want?



From a Male Nairakeyz reader:-

I want to get rid of my girlfriend but don’t know how to go about it. I’ve been trying for the past eight months to end things up with her but she just does not get it. I have been throwing subtle signs but she’s not picking them up. I invited her to the house when I knew another girl will be there but she didn’t care she didn’t break up with me.

I don’t reply her pings until two days later and I don’t return her calls at all but she still does not get it. I know the easiest way to end things is to talk to her and tell its over but I don’t want to do that for two reasons. She’s my friend’s little sister and about a year ago she nearly died when she tried to abort a pregnancy for me. So I’m here out of guilt but I am no longer happy and want her gone.

She hardly sees me these days or even talk to me but she keeps believing we are in a relationship. I even put on my BB that I am enjoying the single life and I thought she would confront me about it but she laughed instead and said she misses me. I don’t want this girl anymore, how can I get rid of her without having ‘that talk?

Wednesday, 3 December 2014

Must Read:- 10 Categories Of Girlfriends


This write-up focuses on the certain categories of girlfriends that will always spell trouble and almost never be the right prospects for a sane man


10 Categories Of Annoying Girl Friends

1. The Ones Who Change Men Like Bathroom Slipppers

While you are still wearing a bathroom slippers, some ladies must have changed up to 3 boyfriends.. They feel they are on top of the game because so many male suitors are chasing them here and there. You have to be tactical in dealing with these ladies else, they will dump you without any reason

2. Eatery Lovers

The ones who love eateries as if their lives depend on it. They are always available at the mention of eatery. Even when they don’t have appetite, they will still point to expensive foods which they cannot even eat. Many at times, not even loss of appetite will stop them from feeding as if there’s famine in d land grin

3. Girlfriend Who Tags You Stingy When You Are Prudent In Spending

Some girlfriends expect you to do the needful at the mention of money. When some ladies ask you for money twice and you them excuses, you are tagged “STINGY” The moment she realizes you are prudent in spending, she keeps telling you indirectly or tell her friends that you are a stingy dude

4. Gold Diggers

Even if you don’t have that much money, you may still encounter girls that are interested in the last kobo you have in your pocket. A tell tale sign of a gold digger is the lack of a job. If some ladies have no motivation to support themselves, then odds are that their goal is to exercise their maga-rizm skill on you. Regardless of your financial situation, you should run the other way cos she’ll size you up within the first five minutes and drop you just as quickly if your cash flow doesn’t meet her standards.

5. Girlfriend Who Remembers You in Time Of Need

The moment some so called girlfriends start flashing you repeatedly, you can be sure she needs a favour from you ** smh**

6. Girlfriend Who Weeps Over Anything

These are the categories of ladies who cry like babies at any slight provocation. The break down in tears when anything silly or bad happens.. She sees you with another lady, she will cry; you shout at her, she will cry; she lost her purse, she will cry. She will cry more ridiculous tears as the relationship wears on. Run from them !

7. Girlfriends Who Are Obsessed With Marriage

Many ladies are infatuated with the idea of marriage. They’ve planned out their lives to the finest silly details and they see happiness as some sort that they can create certain steps that they must have two children by the time they’re 32 and they had better be living in a cute house with a house maid who does good impressions. Needless I say, If any lady mentions making a family or getting married before you’ve even gotten to know her, run away !.

8. The Chronic Cheaters

The chronic cheaters announce their history of infidelity as if she takes pride in it. This type is easy to detect and get away from quickly. They are more cunning and they cheat without ever admitting to it even when you confront them directly. In this case, your only chance of finding out the truth is by asking someone who knows her well and whom you think you can trust.

9. Secret Keepers

These one who are unnecessary secretive. However, they hide everything, fb password, phone lock password, inbox messages ( just name it). They start feeling very uncomfortable when you are going through their phones . Ask for their social network password and they would threat to call the relationship a quit because you don’t trust them

10. High Maintenance Chic

If she breaks a nail, she expects you to drop everything you’re doing and start consoling her immediately. She acts like a dummy maybe because their dads always told her she was a princess and she expects to be treated like one. Although she’s not necessarily after your money like the Gold Digger, she has expensive taste, and expects you to shower her with nice things and take her out to posh places on a regular basis.

Feel Free To Add Yours

Sunday, 30 November 2014

Welcome to the Month Of Christmas: Happy New Month, Dear Nairakeyz Blog Readers



Nairakeyz Blog wishes all of it's esteemed fans, readers and the entire public a happy new month.. May you find your heart desires' this month. Stay blessed

Below are some Collections Of Happy New Month Messages December 2014

Send special happy new month messages/SMS/Text and greetings to your friends, relatives and loved ones.

Here are great collections of New Month Greetings, New Month Wishes, New Month Quotes, New Month Poems, New Month SMS, New Month Text and lots more you can send to friends and family.

Choose from these collections of New Month Messages to send good wishes to your near and dear ones.

•Hey Buddies

Hey Buddies this is the opening day of the new month And it preserve be a new create of your life as well. Take a lengthy breathing and begin Going advance towards your purpose. Best of good fortune Happy New Month!

•New Month Text Wishes

The very last month has moved Allow the lifeless past hide its hold lifeless The New Month has in use Custody of the timepiece of time Every frozen rain the jobs And Promise of the next future 30 Days! Happy New month

•A fresh and joyful month Is in relation to come, May God sanctify you? With cheerfulness And delight which You miss in the Previous month. Happy New Month.

•present have been countless period in preceding month when I distressed you concerned you taunt to you motivated you however now I just required to inform you I arrangement to carry on it within this month as fine. Happy New Month

•With let’s twist a fresh sheet with the perfume of fresh rainwater. Let’s overlook earlier period errors making punishment for this month. Transfer you these good wishes to carry you trust and joyfulness Happy New month!

•New days and new months are the importance of transform. They explain that being not stopped for everything. So stay touching and stay cheery. Happy New Month

•Open ur Mind 2 Possibilities You’ll be amazed by what you are capable of achieving We are powerful beyond measure. May the Almighty God balance d equation 4 U dis new Month. Hapi New Month

•I ask 4 God’s BRAIN 2 DRAIN away d RAIN of PAIN in your life & fall RAIN of GAIN on u so dt what u OBTAIN & ORDAIN 2 be will not turn into VAIN. Hv a 1derful March …

•Just Like the Eagle, You’ll fly Like Gold, You will be Valued Like the Sun, You shall shine bright Like the river, You shall flow unlimited Like the Palm Tree, You shall Flourish and like Money, You shall be Useful Happy New Month …

•May new month becomes one of the most blessed and happy months for you In this beautiful month, May its shining lights up every dark corner of our heart, May our all prejudices against each other disappears, May God give us the strength to follow His orders, May peace transcend the earth.Happy New Month…

•Bless You A Very Happy New Month. The New Month of happiness has arrived, Get ready to gather all the treasure of blessings, May we Praise Almighty God from dawn to dusk, Help others by giving them smiles and happiness, So everyone can enjoy the celebration of spring, Wish You a Nice Month Ahead.

•In busy life, We dont have enough time to enjoy and spend time with each other. At the start of this month, I wish and hope to spend some time with you. Share all the good memories of our love affection. Happy Lovely New Month.

•“Matt and I have set a date. Matt and I will tie the knot New Months Day in the town of Swampscott, Massachusetts. Reserve your hotel rooms now. I will be having a gay marriage.”
Ben Affleck

•“A New Month’s resolution is something that goes in one month and out the other.”
Anonymous

•“I made no resolutions for the New Month. The habit of making plans, of criticizing, sanctioning and molding my life, is too much of a daily event for me.”
Anais Nin

•“Drop the last month into the silent limbo of the past. Let it go, for it was imperfect, and thank God that it can go.”
Brooks Atkinson

•“For last month’s words belong to last month’s language and next month’s words await another voice.”
T.S. Eliot

•“The only way to spend New Month’s Eve is either quietly with friends or in a brothel. Otherwise when the evening ends and people pair off, someone is bound to be left in tears.”
W.H. Auden

•“Cheers to a new month and another chance for us to get it right.”
Oprah Winfrey

“Cheers to a new month and another chance for us to get it right.”

Here's Wishing everyone of the readers a lovely lovely new month!



Thursday, 27 November 2014

UNBELIEVABLE!! Snake Withdraws Cash At Barclays Bank ATM [See Photos Here]



On Saturday a strange accident happened in Harare, Zimbabwe. According to the report a snake slithered to an ATM machine at Barclays Bank Angwa Street and then entered a car.

Passers-by surrounded the car to get a closer view of the snake and its owner.

Others were busy taking photos from the onset and managed to capture pictures of the snake and the car that it later entered.


Social media was awash with pictures of the incident.

A large crowd of onlookers had also gathered to see what was going on. When the crowd mobbed the car and asked the driver to explain the bizarre occurrence, he professed ignorance and unperturbedly asked them to release him so he could go home.

He said: “I don’t know what you are talking about, let me go home”.

Tuesday, 25 November 2014

Can't Believe This, Is this How Nigerian Prison Looks Like? [See Photos]



No matter what you do, keep it legal, the situation in Nigeria prison is getting absolutely despicably inhumane.

Can You even observe what I am Observing?

Seems that Small wall Fan is blowing only the Cell President..

This is too badt…

See More Photos Below:-






Sunday, 23 November 2014

After Reading This You Might Break-Up With Your Girlfriend - #Fact



Love is a good feeling when it is true and every man likes to wine and dine with his woman, making her feel special and loved. However in the course of carrying out his many duties, he also has to take care not to be taken on a fool’s ride by crafty women, below are five sings to know if she only wants you for your money. (You might probly break-up with her – like I did. LOL)

1. She Never Pays for Anything:

Your gold digger alert better be flashing a bright red signal if you have to always pay for all the dates that you go on. There is something wrong if the movie dates, restaurant bills and other expenses incurred while together always have to be settled by you. While it is good for you to treat your lady right, this is the 21st century and a woman is a helper, you shouldn’t pay for everything all the time. There should be times she is also willing to treat you or split the bills with you.

2. She Demands for Expensive Things:

Singer Davido already said it all in his hit song “Aye” when he said his babe doesn’t want Ferrari or designers but his love.If you are dating a girl that is always demanding for expensive things you should start reconsidering the real motive of the relationship. Expensive gifts are all the more special only when they are done rarely and willingly. If your girl seems to be the materialistic type, then in all likelihood she won’t stick with you during bad times; she will leave you the next minute a richer person wants her.

3. Her Friends Always Come Along On Dates:

Another sign to show that a Nigerian girl is interested in your money rather than you is when you go on dates and she has a friend or two along. Wise up already, three is a crowd and when you asked her out you weren’t asking to sign up to date her entire clique. Keep it at the back of your mind that if she is in the habit of buying take away stuffs for her friends back home then you are just another Nigerian maga.

4. She Lacks Career Aspiration:

Think twice before dating a Nigerian girl that lacks career aspiration, if she is not willing to work and make her own money then you are entering danger zone if you move in her direction. A girl that is dependent who looks to get what she wants or prefers her man does everything does not need any further introduction, just take to your heels. If she isn’t self reliant, it only means as her man she would expect you to pick up all her bills, in this case you become Mr. Fix It.

5. She is Overtly Curious about Your Financial Status:

This particular sign works in two ways, a girl might actually be interested in your financial status to make sure that she is dating a financially secure man. On the other hand she could also be asking to calculate how much she can milk from you or if you are worth her time.

When a girl is more curious about your bank account statement than in you, keep your guards up and be on the lookout for any of the other signs mentioned earlier to help determine if she just wants to chop your money.

Saturday, 22 November 2014

Na Wa ooh! 20-Year Old Girl Takes Her Life After 19-Year Old Lover Commits S.uicide



A young lady, Becky Tait, 20, has been reported to have killed herself in UK by stepping in front of a train. Becky’s friends and family will be attending her burial at St Michael’s Church, Stone, this afternoon, after Becky took her own life because she couldn’t live without her partner who committed s*****e in a similar way two months ago.

Becky was said to be inconsolable, after Phil James, 19, passed away and decided to end it too. Too sad. Really sad how young people see life these days. R.I.P…

See happy photos of them below:





Wednesday, 12 November 2014

I Spend My Free Time Having S*x – Nicki Minaj [Read Now]



In a recent interview with the publication, ‘Anaconda’ rapper, Nicki Talked about making her brand bigger, working with Beyoncé, empowering women, what she thinks of rapper Iggy Azalea, and her constant urge have to s*x;

Nicki, who said, she spends her free time having s*x, on how she stays relevant in the rap industry said;

It’s corny when rappers feel like they’ve made it and they don’t have to prove themselves anymore. You should always be competing. You should always be trying to show that you’re the best. My album is going to be important to hip-hop.”

And how Beyoncé has inspired her career:

There’s something about her work ethic that always made me feel like no matter how hard stuff gets, I’m not allowed to complain. Some women give me the feeling that where there’s a will, there’s a way.”

And on her controversial song “Anaconda” she said:

Everything we see that’s labeled as beautiful is very skinny. In the song I kind of say, ‘F**k them skinny girls.’ But it’s all love. I consider myself a skinny girl. I went overboard with the video to show that I’m not going to hide. And those big-booty dancers I have, they’re not going to hide. Black girls should feel sexy, powerful, and important too.”

Yeah! People should be proud of how they look no matter how hard that seems, don’t you agree???

Saturday, 8 November 2014

[Read This] I Invest Heavily In Gold To Secure My Future – Wizkid



Wizkid while speaking to a Pm News reporter has explained how he is trying to secure his future. According to him, he invests in Gold and properties even though people think investing in Gold is vanity, it is a very good business he said.

Where are you investing all the millions you are making now?

I invest heavily in properties and jewellery. I spend more on gold. I have heard some people say they are vanities but I tell you, they are very good investments.

About being arrogant and acting like a terrible person, he said;

Well, everyone is entitled to his or her opinion. And you should also check those who claim I am a terrible person. I am not and my people know that. Whatever any one feels, he should not blame me for it. Everyone cannot like you; same as everyone cannot hate you. I am just being me and also being a good person. Fame has not changed me; it only added some accessories to my collections. People say I am arrogant and it does not bother me because I still show my fans love and they do same in return.

Friday, 7 November 2014

REVEALED: Why I Won’t Marry My Babymama Now – Terry G Opens Up [Read Now]



Terry G and Son

Terry G in a fresh interview with Vanguard has revealed why he won’t be marrying the mother of his only child, despite living together as a couple.

According to him, marriage is something no man should rush into, so he won’t rush out eventually.

And as far as he is concerned, he is okay living with his babymama as live-in lovers.

Why are you yet to get married to Mimi, the mother of your child?

She’s my fiancée; we are getting married one day but I don’t want everybody pushing us to settle down as if they own our lives. One thing many of them have not realised is that marriage is a decision we have to make once in life.

I don’t want to make a decision now and change my mind later or else everybody looking up to me as a role-model will see me as an irresponsible guy. Besides, I don’t want to make a rash decision that I’d regret for the rest of my life.

That is why I have been taking my time, putting things that make marriage worthwhile together and at the end, when that fruitfulness is everywhere we can live our lives together forever.

I thank God I have a good and understanding partner and we are working together.

What do you understand about marriage?

I don’t know anything about marriage, because I have never been into it, but I believe marriage is when two opposite sexes are living together as couple. Technically, I’m married because my fiancée lives with me and my son.

I live like a married man, though without any ring or court pronouncement. Everybody asks me about marriage but hardly talks about divorce.

Let’s not go into that aspect so we don’t hurt the victims of that circumstance and if I can say it here, I don’t want to rush into marriage so I won’t become a victim of the circumstance called divorce.

Wednesday, 5 November 2014

How Frustration Led Terry G To The Street Music He Is Doing Now [Must Read]



Nigerian artist Terry G is known for his eccentricity in music, an image brand that he has created for himself over the past few years.

However in a chat with Leadership magazine, Terry G reveals that he didn’t always start out this way and that frustration might have played a big part in the music he is creating now.

The artist, who is shooting the video of one of his songs, Gbagbe Osi, had a very candid chat with Leadership newspaper.

Read excerpts of his interview below! Starting from the first.

What has Terry G been up to?

I have been working. Recently, I opened a factory where water is packaged for sale.

We started last month and it has been good. We have some trucks now and we are planning to add more before the year ends.

As for the music part, I’m dropping a video soon as it is characteristic of Terry G; I always drop 3 videos a year.

We also just shot a video for one of my artistes.

Your music is now a success story, how did you do it?

My brother if I tell you say I know how, na lie I dey lie (laughs).

I have been studying the industry and I have learnt to give the people what they want.

I started with Rhythm and Blues and went to shoot my video in South Africa.

The buzz I got from the song was not satisfactory, so I became frustrated and maybe that frustration led me to do the street music I’m doing now- the Apako song.

Apako has given you a name and identity on the Nigerian music scene, what inspired it?

Apako is a slang in Benin which means ‘scope’. The song, Make I Nak You Apako is about a guy toasting a babe and scoping her.

It means “let me scope you” or “let me yarn you that thing”. It is a slang we use in Benin and in AJ.

I had to study the terrain and come out with such a song. If dem no accept my R&B, dem go accept my street music, which bonds with the people.

But most of the songs Nigerians gyrate to have lewd lyrics, what’s your take?

You see, today’s music is evil.

We call it commercial music. This is the music that brings the millions. People are still doing good music here but there is no buzz.

It is the commercial music which some people term ‘bad’ music that is getting us the millions.

It is all about the business of music and the glam that accompanies it. I said before that I was doing good music before, but the buzz was not there.

So, I researched what the need is and experimented with songs like Make I Nak You Apako and others.

It is not easy doing music; recording a song is a piece of creativity and you just do it from your heart and await the feedback from listeners.

How did music come to you?

I learnt music in Church.

I am the first child and was very good at playing drums. My parents are pastors at Redeemed Christian Church of God, Peace Assembly Parish.

Music started from church for me and now I have taken it to the street and made a name for myself.

I did back-up for Faze of Plantashun Boyz. I thank God; I’m here and my gift brought me success.

How can a “Church boy” and the son of pastors do your kind of music? Music is business-don’t forget that.

I was in the choir; though I was stubborn growing up. However, looking back, the Church was not ready for me.

I’m not sure I would have lasted if I had ventured into Gospel music. It is a matter of choice.

I still pray and I’m a Christian.

It seems a lot of successful secular artistes got their start from Church, your thoughts?

It is a thing of choice.

The music from the Church is mainstream and strictly Gospel; and the Church maybe doesn’t understand our language as young, creative people in search of success.

I honour my parents because they gave me the foundation.

READ FULL INTERVIEW HERE

Sunday, 2 November 2014

How To Be Successful In Life & 13 Tips From The World’s Most Successful People



No matter how old you are, where you’re from or what you do for a living, we all share something in common—a desire to be successful. Each person’s definition of success is different, however, as some may define success as being a loving and faithful spouse or a caring and responsible parent, while most people would equate success with wealth, fame, and power.

We all want to achieve success so we could live a comfortable life—have financial freedom, drive a nice car, and live in a beautiful house. However, although success can be achieved, it does not come easy.

There are a lot of tips and strategies out there on how to be successful in life, but I am still a firm believer that there is no better way to succeed than to follow that footsteps of those who have already done so. Here are 13 success tips from some of the world’s most successful and renowned people:

1.Think big.

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.

From Michelangelo Buonarroti, Great Renaissance Artist: “The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.”

2.Find what you love to do and do it.

You know you are on the road to success if you would do your job, and not be paid for it.

From Oprah Winfrey, Media Mogul: “You know you are on the road to success if you would do your job and not be paid for it.”

3. Learn how to balance life.

There is an immutable conflict at work in life and in business, a constant battle between peace and chaos. Neither can be mastered, but both can be influenced. How you go about that is the key to success.

From Phil Knight, CEO of Nike Inc.: “There is an immutable conflict at work in life and in business, a constant battle between peace and chaos. Neither can be mastered, but both can be influenced. How you go about that is the key to success.”

4. Do not be afraid of failure.

Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.

From Henry Ford, Founder of Ford Motors: “Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.”

5. Have an unwavering resolution to succeed.

From Colonel Sanders, Founder of KFC: “I made a resolve then that I was going to amount to something if I could. And no hours, nor amount of labor, nor amount of money would deter me from giving the best that there was in me. And I have done that ever since, and I win by it. I know.”

6. Be a man of action.

From Leonardo da Vinci, Renaissance Genius :“It had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things.”

7. Avoid conflicts.

From Theodore Roosevelt, 26th President of America: “The most important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how to get along with people.”

8. Don’t be afraid of introducing new ideas.

From Mark Twain, Famed Author: “A person with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds.”

9. Believe in your capacity to succeed.

If you can dream it, you can do it. From Walter Disney, Founder of Walt Disney Company: “If you can dream it, you can do it.”

10. Always maintain a positive mental attitude.

Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.

From Thomas Jefferson, 3rd President of America: “Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.”

11. Don’t let discouragement stop you from pressing on.

Let no feeling of discouragement prey upon you, and in the end you are sure to succeed.

From Abraham Lincoln, 16th President of America: “Let no feeling of discouragement prey upon you, and in the end you are sure to succeed.”

12. Be willing to work hard.

Unless you are willing to drench yourself in your work beyond the capacity of the average man, you are just not cut out for positions at the top.

From JC Penny, Founder of JC Penney Inc.: “Unless you are willing to drench yourself in your work beyond the capacity of the average man, you are just not cut out for positions at the top.”

13. Be brave enough to follow your intuition.

From Steve Jobs, Co-founder of Apple Inc.: “Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

Saturday, 1 November 2014

“Lagos Is The Worst Place To Visit On Earth” – Says American Traveler [PHOTOS]




In an article titled ‘Worst Places I’ve Ever Visited, From A Man Who Has Visited Everywhere’, Yahoo Travel expert/writer Lee Abbamonte, ranked Lagos, Nigeria as the No. 1 worst city to visit on earth.

Above (right) is the picture he shared of Lagos and below is what he wrote about Lagos


As far as I am concerned, Lagos, Nigeria, is the worst place on planet Earth. I’ve never experienced so much corruption in my life. It was just a horrific experience getting into the country. Crossing in from Benin, we got shaken down by the border guards. In addition to the multiple police shakedowns, the multiple ATM issues were enough for me; three times in two days, the machines dispensed the wrong amount of money. It was oppressive and hot. I couldn’t tell you one good thing about that place.”

Here’s the article on Yahoo! Anyone who reads this garbage and has never been to Lagos would really think this city is that horrible. Not nice!

AFRICAN QUEEN TO AFRICAN B00BS: “I Don’t Expose my cleavage”-Actress Yvonne Jegede


The dark skinned beauty told Encomuim magazine, she doesn’t walk on the streets with her cleavage exposed.

I don’t expose my cleavage, it was a photo shoot. You don’t see me walking on the street with my cleavage hanging out.

It was a photo shoot. I felt I have some features that people should know of. Even with that, some people still believe that she has a lot of boobs but no behind, that is wrong.

I am coming out to showcase. I think the older I get, the more comfortable I am in my skin. You get secured, more confident with age.

If I feel very comfortable showing off my curves, my cleavage, excuse me, it is my body. But I will not walk around naked. I wear whatever I am comfortable with.

Wednesday, 22 October 2014

A Letter To Single Guys (Must Read)


Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared with you lately?

The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain’t an easy job, I must confess! But with God and diligence in fulfilling purpose, we’ll get there.

I write this letter to you to point out some things which you ought to know before marriage or as you continue in that relationship.

This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players. First concerning how you treat ladies. I know quite alright that ladies are emotional only few are not. Please, don’t take advantage of that and inflict emotional pain on them.

If you know she’s not going to be your wife, there’s no point promising her heaven and earth just to get her in bed.

If you think you’re smart, your smartness cannot prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that would one day catch up with you.

It’s better you avoid the consequences of an action because of its few minutes pleasure than to face its agony and regrets in the near future.

What are you doing about your life and future? I know it’s trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all youthful exuberance. See, life doesn’t go on a stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be recovered.

If at age 30 or close to it, you haven’t define your life or you’re still depending on friends, family or relatives, you need to work on yourself. Where do you put God in your life? Consider God in the time of your youth before it’s too late.

Many of you who turned back on God will someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot dance to the devil’s music, it’s better you start learning God’s steps.

Hear this guys, love isn’t s*x! Don’t tell a lady to prove her love to you because you want to have a ‘taste’ of her. I know everyone is going haywire with premarital s*x but you can choose to abstain.

Apart from it being sin against God, it will make you vulnerable to STDs and some problems ‘rubber’ cannot prevent.

It doesn’t matter if she calls you names if you choose to abstain, or you become an object of mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear life.

Think about your future and life hereafter. Don’t give your strength to strange women, preserve it for your wife. Have you discovered your purpose in life? That very reason why God has created you? Jumping from one lady to another without discovering your purpose on earth will make you miserable and waste away in life.

Know your purpose in life and be on track to attain it’s fulfillment before you think of going into a relationship. It’s not difficult, it would only prevent you from distraction.

Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they contributing positively to your life or they are emptying you of virtues and opportunities?

It’s not a must you hang out with friends if you do not benefit from them. You can stand alone with God and make lasting impact than to keep dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand of time.

Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual, mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man beats a woman even if she pushed you to the wall. There is a button of patience to press to control your anger.

Work on your mental development. Read good books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get intimate with God so that your wife wouldn’t become a victim of false prophets or you become a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the homefront.

My guy, you’re going to be a father someday. Don’t do the things you wouldn’t be proud of your son to emulate or would want anyone to do to your daughter.

If you wouldn’t want to leave a bad legacy for your unborn children, don’t tread the path now.

I’d have love to tell you more but I believe you know the importance of life and time and I’m constrained due to space.

Don’t waste away chasing every Tom, d**k and Harry for s*x. Conserve your energies and channel it into a more productive cause in life.

I hope the few wise ones would treasure this letter, share it or send it to a friend.

Thank you for your anticipated response as you make amends in areas where necessary.